Your Just-Married Checklist: What to Do After the Wedding’s Over
The music has faded. That last glass of wine? Raised high and sipped slow. A breeze brushes your cheek as laughter fades into memory. You’re married—really, truly married. And now… what happens next? After months of dreaming, planning and that once-in-a-lifetime moment, it’s perfectly normal to feel a wave of emotions. Pure joy. A deep breath of relief. Maybe even that quiet after-the-storm feeling. At Marvellous Wedding, we’ve spent over a decade guiding couples through the magic of getting married in Santorini. And we’ve learned something important—what comes after the wedding is just as meaningful.Here’s your loving, practical, a-little-tearjerking Just-Married Checklist to help you step into the next chapter with grace.
1. Let It All Sink In
You did it. You really did it. Pause for a moment.Take a long, slow breath. Let the memories flood in—the walk down the aisle, the way they looked at you, the clink of glasses. Flip through some photos. Talk about the day. Laugh at the little things that didn’t go as planned. This is your first chapter as a married couple—live in it.
2. Send Out Those Thank Yous
Gratitude is a beautiful thing. Whether your guests flew halfway across the globe or sent a card from afar, they were part of your love story. Take a little time to send thank-you notes. Personalize them with a shared memory or a specific gift. Handwritten goes a long way, but sincerity is what matters most. And don’t forget—showing appreciation after the wedding means just as much as on the day itself.
3. Go Through Your Photos & Videos
When the final edits land in your inbox, set aside a cozy evening to go through them together. Light a candle. Open a bottle of wine. Relive each frame like it’s the first time. Pick out favorites for printing and maybe even begin designing your wedding album or a little gallery wall in your home.
4. Give Your Vendors Some Love
Behind every beautiful wedding is a dream team. Take a few minutes to leave thoughtful reviews. Mention their names, their magic touches and the moments they made easier. A kind tip or shout-out helps their business and keeps the love going long after the wedding.
5. Save the Dress & Flowers
That dress? That bouquet? They’re more than just items—they’re heirlooms in the making. Have your gown professionally cleaned and stored. Press some petals from your bouquet or turn it into a piece of framed art. Some brides keep a piece of lace beside a photo; others pass it down. You decide what it becomes.
6. Handle the Legal Bits
Love may be universal, but paperwork? Not quite as romantic. If your ceremony in Santorini was symbolic, check that everything’s legal back home. Start with your marriage certificate. Then, update your name—if you’re changing it—on your passport, ID, driver’s license and health cards. And don’t forget to tell your employer, bank, insurance provider and even your doctor’s office. There’s a surprising amount to sort out after the wedding, but we promise—it’s worth doing sooner than later.
7. Talk Finances—Openly
You’ve blended your hearts. Now it’s time to talk budgets. This is where love meets life logistics. Whether it’s joint accounts, adjusting your tax class, future savings, or just agreeing on who buys groceries—it’s all about building together.
Tip: Take a look at your insurance policies too. Some updates can save you money in the long run.
8. Write Each Other a Love Letter
This is your moment. Grab some paper. Take a breath. Write down what you felt on that day. What you saw in each other’s eyes. What you hope for in the years ahead. Seal it. Save it for your first anniversary. You’ll be glad you did.
9. Plan a Post-Wedding Escape
No pressure for a lavish honeymoon—just something for the two of you. Whether it’s a weekend on the coast, a quiet cabin stay, or even a fancy night at home, plan something.It’s a gentle way to mark your new beginning after the wedding.
10. Revisit the Day, Together
Talk about your wedding like it was a favorite movie. What made you cry? What made you laugh out loud? What made you look around and think, “This is it”? These conversations keep the glow alive.
11. Print That Wedding Album
Yes, everything lives online these days. But nothing replaces the feel of a real album in your hands. Go big or keep it simple—but make it you. Choose pages that tell your story. Let it live on your coffee table or bookshelf, not in a cloud.
12. Embrace the Little Joys
Marriage isn’t just milestones—it’s the million small things in between. Make coffee together. Take evening walks. Celebrate surviving your first IKEA trip. It’s those simple joys that build a life.
13. Start a New Tradition
Maybe it’s a yearly Santorini sunset. Maybe it’s writing love notes in a shared journal. Start something now. Watch it evolve with you over the years.
14. Keep the Spark Burning
The wedding may be over, but the romance? That’s just warming up. Surprise each other with small gestures. Steal kisses in the kitchen. Say “I love you” without needing a reason. Plan date nights and spontaneous dance breaks in your living room. Keep love light and playful.
15. Tell the World Your Story
Other couples are dreaming, just like you once were. Post your favorite photo. Leave a review for your planner. Share a little advice. Your love story after the wedding might be just the inspiration they need.
This Is Just the Beginning
At Marvellous Wedding, we believe the journey doesn’t stop at “I do.” We’re here for the laughter that follows, the decisions, the memories still to be made. Your Santorini wedding was the spark—but your marriage? That’s the flame. We’re honored to have been part of your story. And we’re still right here if you need us—for honeymoon ideas, anniversary escapes, or vow renewals.
Let’s Keep the Magic Going
Still dreaming about Santorini? Thinking about coming back for your anniversary? With over 10 years of crafting weddings and memories on this island, Marvellous Wedding Planner Santorini is a part of your love story. Your forever starts here—and we’re thrilled to walk with you.